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That's right! This week, one reader is getting tired of being constantly told he's "too nice" to date - so how does one become more exciting to potential partners?

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When women tell you that you're too nice, what they really mean 9 times out of 10 is that you're passive. You have a lot of attractive potential, but you're presenting yourself in the dullest, most passive way possible.

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I suspect that when you talk to women you're interested in, you're terrified of making a mistake and accidentally offending them and, as a result, play things as safe as possible.

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The other question is, how do I tease out of her if she's open to that sort of thing? I don't want to have a fun date, have her thinking "this guy could be long term material", then talk about short-term dating and she feels like she's somehow failed, or it's a Woman want casual sex Harris that I'm not that into her.

Waant things first: It's better to be up front with this - it gives people who are looking for a long-term relationship the opportunity to opt-out as well as helps Rea MO housewives personals that there aren't any mixed signals or misunderstandings.

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