I love my wife. We used to have a great sex life.
But after many years, children, and just day-to-day reality, our sex life is now pretty unsatisfying. While my wife was barely GGG at the beginning, now she will not go down on me ever.
We do have sex four to 10 times a month, but it is always plain vanilla. My only actual response admitted to being a man pretending to be a woman. Long story short, I let him blow me. I just watched some straight porn while he blew me.
I have done this a few times with different guys. I am not turned on by men at all, but I do enjoy the enthusiastic BJs when combined with straight porn. One more watns, I guess.
I would be inclined to give you a pass if you were not having sex with your wife at all — or having sex with her once or twice a year, or if your wife announced she was asexual — but you and the wife are having quite a lot of sex.
If you were to contract gonorrhea or syphilis from one of your male sex partners, BJS, you would almost certainly pass yo infection on to your wife before you became symptomatic and got treated. I have broken up with him repeatedly, each time after two Bi guy wants to blow and go of being together, but we always end up back together.
Wanhs two-year point seems to be when I become so incredibly soul-crushed by our sexless relationship that I have to end it. Why is our relationship sexless?
He is possibly asexual, my attraction to him is limited, he roughhouses and I am afraid he will hurt me, and he is crap in bed when we do have sex. But I love him, I treasure our history, and I would love for our families to merge.
I had the opportunity recently to get sexual attention outside the relationship, and now I can see living a life with my partner while having a separate sex life that involves other people. This is something he would never agree to.
I am currently trying to examine my morals to see if I can be OK with this arrangement.
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It is the only thing I can think of that will allow me to stay with him. Reach him at mail savagelove.
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